Welcome friends!

Cheryl and I are inviting you to our family blog, so that we might share some experiences as Larry undergoes proton therapy treatment for his prostate cancer.

"Ton Tenga" is the name of our small farm in the hills of northwest Georgia. It is from the language we spoke with the Mossi people in Burkina Faso, and it means our land or our farm.

Larry's treatments begin April 12, and we will make regular posts during the six-weeks in Florida.

Here a "Naa", there a "Naa", everywhere a "Naa, naa"

Well, I've been saying for 3 weeks that I would post pictures of the newest additions to the Ton Tenga family, and finally, here they are. Twins!



And then 24 hours later another set of twins.



These guys are so cute and they have such a good time playing together all over the pasture. They especially enjoy the goat version of 'King of the Mountain'.



Larry was out of the country when they were born, so he missed all the excitement, and was a little late beginning to bond with them.



Last weekend, while Larry & I were in Mississippi, another set of twins was born, but unfortunately we lost one of them three days later, right after Larry left for Haiti. He's missed a lot, and Allison & I are getting pretty good at taking care of the goats. But we still have 2 more who are about ready to deliver, so maybe he hasn't missed all the fun (and the work)!
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Jason, Kelli, Abbey, Maddie & Naomi were at Ton Tenga last month soon after they arrived in Memphis for a 10 month stateside assignment. We enjoyed some wonderful family time, and the cousins had fun on the farm, riding the Kubota, feeding the animals and just being together. Everybody got their height recorded on the measuring post down at the barn.
Shelby, Darby & Emma, Papa will measure you again when you come in December!

















We've been telling some of you about our "new" car, and we wanted you to see it, because our descriptions just can't do it justice! It's a 7-passenger, '09 Ford Flex. It's very roomy -- lots of leg room and head space -- and has all wheel drive, so it just kind of floats up the hill to our house!







Larry's Tractor

Over two years ago, as we were driving back home from Mississippi, Larry spotted an old Farmall Cub tractor for sale on the side of the road. He had been wanting one for a long time since his grandfather had one just like it. We stopped and he bought it with the intention of restoring it. It's just been sitting around, first in the garage when we lived at Cherokee Lodge at WinShape, and then out in the open near the barn at Ton Tenga. Larry had really wanted to work on it himself, but that hadn't happened in two years and didn't look like it was going to happen anytime soon. Then a couple of months ago, he met a guy who restores tractors and decided to get him to work on it. Here's what the Cub looked like when he came to pick it up:





Now it's back home, and Larry is the proud owner of a beautifully restored momento of another Cox farm in Mississippi two generations ago. ckc



Shutters!

The "entry side" of our house has a new look! A word of explanation to those who have not been to our house: When we were building the house, we had to quit saying "front" or "back" because it was so confusing. What would normally be the front of the house and where you enter our house is actually on the back. And what you see when you're driving up the hill to the house is the back with huge windows to enjoy the view. So since the front is on the back and the back is on the front, we just say the "entry side" or the "view side". You'll have to come to see us to fully understand! Anyway, Larry has added shutters to the windows on the entry side. He made them, painted them (deep orange, to match the door), and then Marshall came out to help him put them up.





Don't they look great? Good job, Papa!
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Lessons from the Farm

A while back, Larry bought four new goats to live at Ton Tenga. They are pretty little brown goats -- very sweet and gentle, but not very intelligent. You know the old saying, "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence"? Well, these little goats just cannot resist the grass that is out of their reach, and they very frequently end up like this:



They can easily get their heads through the fence, but then they're stuck because of their horns, and they make a lot of noise to let us know that they're stuck. Larry got tired of wrestling with them to get them unstuck, so he came up with a solution using a piece of PVC and some wire. They look so strange that the kids started calling them "alien goats".



So, the lesson from the farm (and the goats) -- to be content with what I have, where I am, and resist the temptation of that greener grass!
Philippians 4:11-13

Change in Weather

Strange after a post about the snow to be talking about 70-degree weather, but nevertheless, Ton Tenga enjoyed a change in temperature last weekend. This had to be one of the most beautiful days I can remember, and so peaceful on the farm. Pictures below may not be of interest to anyone but Larry and Cheryl (who missed the change in weather), but they give a sense of the recent lazy days at Ton Tenga. Included are pics of the new goat, who is cuter than a puppy and very energetic. —AJ




Snow!

It doesn't snow very often in our area, but last Friday (Feb. 12) we got 2 or 3 inches. It was beautiful, but it was hard to get up and down our driveway -- actually, impossible in my car, but not as hard in Larry's truck. The best situation is to already be at home when it starts snowing and stay there, but that didn't happen on Friday. I was already in town when it started, and by the time I ran my errands and picked up Caleb & Collin to spend the night, the ground was covered. The car just couldn't get up the hill, so we parked it at the barn & walked up in the snow. It didn't last long -- most of it was gone by Saturday afternoon, but Larry got some really nice pictures before it started to melt.







Caleb enjoyed eating the snow ice cream that Papa made, but Collin wouldn't even taste it because he heard me tell Larry to watch out for yellow snow!



Good to the last drop!

Snow & Ice

The little bit of snow that we got last Thursday didn't even cover the ground, but the ice and freezing temperatures pretty much shut things down around here for a couple of days. The road along the creek and our driveway have been very icy. Larry was able to get out with his truck in 4 wheel drive, but Allison & I didn't even attempt to drive our cars down the driveway until yesterday after Larry cleared off some of the ice with the tractor. It has been beautiful, especially when the snow was falling, but I have enjoyed watching it from inside with a fire going in the fireplace!


Allison & Jordan sliding down our driveway.

Meet Midnight (named by Shelby) born just a week ago. That's Jolene next to him --not his mother. We're expecting another calf to be born any time, and Jolene should have hers next month.

The animals have been hungrier than usual because of the cold, and they let Larry know it. They all come running when they hear him coming, and the ducks follow him around like puppies.

Lots of ice on the ponds. Notice the duck walking on the pond!

Come Fly With Me!

The day after Christmas, Larry & I drove Granny back to Memphis, and then went down to Greenwood for a couple of days. Our nephew, Cayson, came home with us on Tuesday, and on Wednesday, Larry had a special surprise for the family. He had arranged for our friend Ryan, who is a commercial pilot, to take us up in a small plane from the Rome airport. The plane is a 4-seater, so we took turns, 3 at a time, flying over Rome & the surrounding area. It was fun to see our farm, WinShape, Berry College, and Amanda & Jeff's house from the air.

Collin, the co-pilot.

Ton Tenga (our land)








Cayson with Ryan, our pilot.

Nana elected to stay on the ground. Been there, done that, got sick (in West Africa)!

Christmas at Ton Tenga



We had a wonderful Christmas! On Christmas Eve, Amanda, Jeff & the kids joined us (Nana, Papa, Allison & Granny) for dinner and spent the night. Since Jeff was on duty at the fire station on Christmas Day, we woke the kids up early so that he could watch them enjoy their gifts from Santa before he had to leave at 6am! We had our traditional cinnamon rolls and stockings and enjoyed talking with Jason, Kelli, Abbey, Maddie, & Naomi and Jeremy, Kimberly, Shelby, Darby & Emma via Skype.








Unexpected Blessing

We had a wonderful surprise last week when both Jason & Jeremy were with us for a few days. We had known for a few weeks that Jason was coming -- the meeting that he came for was scheduled back in October, and since it was at WinShape, he was able to stay with us for almost a week. Three days after Jason arrived, Jeremy called to say that he was coming to the States for the funeral of a colleague's father, and his flight schedule allowed him to spend several days with us. Their visits overlapped for only two nights & one day, but we made the most of that time. Allison has just moved back home from Chicago, and Amanda lives here in Rome, so Larry & I had the rare opportunity to spend an evening with all four of our children.



Many of you know that if you come to visit us, Larry will put you to work! So, of course, he made good use of that one day that he had the boys here together to get some work done on the barn.



Since Jason, Jeremy and their families live so far away, we just don't expect to see them very often. That's why we're so grateful when the Lord surprises us with an unexpected blessing like this!

Sunday afternoon Larry finally used his birthday gift from last year -- a hang-gliding experience. We drove over to Lookout Mountain, and after completing a lot of paper work (if you read it all and think about it much, it'll scare you out of going through with it!), Larry suited up and was soon airborne. He didn't have to jump off a cliff -- this experience (actually a flying lesson) was with a licensed instructor, and they were pulled up from the airstrip by an ultra-lite plane.


A camera on the wing of the glider took these photos. Notice that in the 2nd & 3rd pictures, Larry is actually flying the glider. The instructor had a parachute, but they didn't give Larry one. If the worst happened, I guess he'd just have to hang on to the other guy!





Larry loved it and said he would do it again. Next time he wants to make it a group experience -- anyone interested?
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It's hard to believe that summer is over. The garden is finished, but there's lots of peas and okra in the freezer and pickles and jelly in the pantry. We really enjoyed our daylilies this year. We thought the last ones had bloomed several weeks ago, but this late bloomer came out just this week.




There are 8 ducklings left from the 12 that hatched, and they follow Larry around all over the farm. When he's not here, they're devoted to me -- when I have a bucket of feed in my hands!



It took a while, but Millie & Boss no longer chase Viola (aka Miss Kitty) up the tree. As you can see, they have become good friends.